[ This wouldn't have worked for Lan Wangji because, well, he hates talking too much. But... it took quite a disaster for Lan Wangji to come around and admit to himself he wasn't getting over his dumb schoolboy crush. So, he's trying to avoid that scenario. ]
He's sarcastic and biting in almost everything that he says. I'd say that he has a knack at getting people to dislike him in their first meeting with him. But I like that honest nature about him. I like that he's able to be himself without being afraid of what people think of him.
[ He's been thinking about this since someone made a post about what a person's best feature is. He thought it was the mouth; the way that people can just say what they like truthfully and while it might be blunt and cold, the fact they can do it without fear is something he likes. As soon as he admitted that to himself, to the Internet, he realized he was in "trouble." ]
He also really cares about people. Even if he's "rough around the edges," he can't stand for people being treated unfairly or unjustly. He will keep fighting for them even if he's fighting alone. I really worry about him going to end up hurting himself, again, in his pursuit of justice.
Still, I've already decided that I'm going to be at his side no matter what. So he won't face any consequence alone.
[ -- ah, that sounds so dramatic, but he really means it! ]
[ I guess so. If he's going to be that serious, then, he really does love him. What does he say next? Thank you for listening to all of this? Well, yes, but--! ]
But he is brave, fiercely loyal, and immeasurably clever. He would give anything for his family. He has risked everything to do what was right.
[ Which is underselling it a bit, because he'd really stood alone and it's Lan Wangji's biggest regret not to have stood by him, against everyone else. ]
Despite all the harms others have caused him, he always smiles.
[ And all these years later, Lan Wangji's heart still does flips every time he sees it. ]
[ A person who is willing to do what is right no matter what, and able to smile no matter what hardships that he's gone through. ]
Your husband sounds like an incredible person.
[ He pauses. ]
Just like you are. [ Is that all right to say? He decides that it is; he may not have known the man for long, but he's also someone who he can say is a amazing person just from the small chats they've had. ]
But what's the best way to go about it? I guess that's a silly question, huh?
[ since that's kind of personal??? if he's going to do it, it should be a way that makes sense to the two of them??? this is his first love??? at forty years old... ah...!! ]
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Sixteen years? I'm so sorry.
But I suppose the sorry is unneeded because you two found each other, again.
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But don't wait too long.
[ Because then he'll just keep procrastinating and buddy!! Trust Lan Wangji on this one, that's a bad idea. ]
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I've only known him for a couple of months, really.
What if I'm wrong???
[ Lan Wangji, he believes in your understanding of love!! Help!! ]
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[ This wouldn't have worked for Lan Wangji because, well, he hates talking too much. But... it took quite a disaster for Lan Wangji to come around and admit to himself he wasn't getting over his dumb schoolboy crush. So, he's trying to avoid that scenario. ]
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[ If what? Why is he nervous about this? Because he's bothering a new friend about emotions, like some high schooler. ]
you tell me things about your husband, too. It's only fair, right?
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Fine.
You first.
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So, tell him about him... ]
He's sarcastic and biting in almost everything that he says. I'd say that he has a knack at getting people to dislike him in their first meeting with him. But I like that honest nature about him. I like that he's able to be himself without being afraid of what people think of him.
[ He's been thinking about this since someone made a post about what a person's best feature is. He thought it was the mouth; the way that people can just say what they like truthfully and while it might be blunt and cold, the fact they can do it without fear is something he likes. As soon as he admitted that to himself, to the Internet, he realized he was in "trouble." ]
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[ He's going to keep saying that until Kazuo has realizations, either that yeah, he's definitely there or.
Actually, maybe not.
But he'll have to chip away and get there. ]
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He also really cares about people. Even if he's "rough around the edges," he can't stand for people being treated unfairly or unjustly. He will keep fighting for them even if he's fighting alone. I really worry about him going to end up hurting himself, again, in his pursuit of justice.
Still, I've already decided that I'm going to be at his side no matter what. So he won't face any consequence alone.
[ -- ah, that sounds so dramatic, but he really means it! ]
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Then I think you have decided how serious you are.
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[ I guess so. If he's going to be that serious, then, he really does love him. What does he say next? Thank you for listening to all of this? Well, yes, but--! ]
But it's your turn now.
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But he is brave, fiercely loyal, and immeasurably clever. He would give anything for his family. He has risked everything to do what was right.
[ Which is underselling it a bit, because he'd really stood alone and it's Lan Wangji's biggest regret not to have stood by him, against everyone else. ]
Despite all the harms others have caused him, he always smiles.
[ And all these years later, Lan Wangji's heart still does flips every time he sees it. ]
He inspires me.
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[ A person who is willing to do what is right no matter what, and able to smile no matter what hardships that he's gone through. ]
Your husband sounds like an incredible person.
[ He pauses. ]
Just like you are. [ Is that all right to say? He decides that it is; he may not have known the man for long, but he's also someone who he can say is a amazing person just from the small chats they've had. ]
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There is much blinking on this side. ]
You hardly know me.
[ Is Kazuo ok? Maybe... maybe he's like the opposite of Wangji and makes friends super easily.
Was that rude to say?
Now he feels bad. ]
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[ BUT, the important part. ]
Will you tell him?
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But what's the best way to go about it? I guess that's a silly question, huh?
[ since that's kind of personal??? if he's going to do it, it should be a way that makes sense to the two of them??? this is his first love??? at forty years old... ah...!! ]
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My husband misunderstood my intentions for a long time.
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I'm sorry.
[ But. ]
Thank you for the advice.
[ He should give some meme or something to show he's grateful, right? ]
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[ Yes this was a Big misunderstanding. ]
I wish you luck.
[ But a meme would be nice.... :> ]
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[ WHAT ]
Thank you. I hope he won't think the same.
and a meme 'cause you know he pulled it through in the end
look he found one too!
FINDING THESE IS VERY HARD
:)
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